By: pukaman

pukaman — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 20:09:49 +0000

Aloha and Mahalo Ken,
I appreciate and agree with much of what you say.
I’ve done a lot of my own inner work and able to share feelings with both men and women.
Yet, I’m still faced with Women who don’t know how to meet a man at that level.
They seem stuck in their own conditioned stereotypes of males.
One thing I haven’t seen is your advice TO women on how to create a safe and trusting space for the man to share in. Too often, the woman “unknowingly” shuts off the space for a man to reveal his feelings, then blames men for not sharing.
I’d like to suggest that if a person wishes to receive a gift, they make a space for it to be. Seems fairly simple, yet hard to do.

By: Andy

Andy — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 01:27:38 +0000

Great advice, I hope that somewhere along the way young people get
the advice that it is not about changing the other person.

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